7. They
destroy you in subtle ways. They give you bad advice, discourage you with words disguised as concern (“I don’t think it’s for you”), or interfere in your decisions to make you fail, but always with a smile.
8. Frustration or disturbance from your mere presence.
Even if they don’t say so, their mannerisms change in your presence: their gaze hardens, their tone becomes dry or impatient, and their bodies tense up. Jung pointed out that the unconscious manifests itself in these small, involuntary details.
What do you do if you find out that someone secretly hates you?
Just
to illustrate: Don’t react with hatred; limiting your emotional outburst is the first step. Jung feared that everything we project onto others reveals a great deal about ourselves.
Set clear boundaries: Keeping your distance from those who hurt you emotionally is a form
